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I Must Confess in Threes
  • Blab: Three secrets I'm keeping.
  • Mwah: Three people I'd like to kiss.
  • Similar: Three members of the same sex I find attractive.
  • Different: Three members of the opposite sex I find attractive
  • Pastime: Three hobbies I have that I would be embarrassed to know someone discovered.
  • Doing: Three habits that I have.
  • Psst: Three things that I've always wanted to tell you.
  • Shh: Three things I wouldn't wan't my parents to know
  • Dream: Three wishes I have.
  • Want: Three things I would do to you if we were alone.

It is hard to be a fat girl. No matter how much you tell yourself how sexy, talented, amazing, worthy, fabulous, and genius you are, there is a pretty serious backlash that you are facing – on a minute by minute basis. And, I’ll tell you, I consider myself pretty tough and persistently body positive, but it is not easy to be kick-ass all the time. Especially when someone tells you point blank to your face that you are fat and you need to lose weight or you will… (insert really scary reason here – usually culminating in the fact that you will be fat, alone, and unlovable until you lose some weight).

And I absolutely guarantee that inside every phenomenal kick-ass fat positive role model is the tiniest inkling of doubt and fear, and every once and a while, when you are feeling a little vulnerable, even the toughest, most awesome girl can be tripped up, even if they refuse to admit it. I’ll even go out on a limb and say that I believe this so wholeheartedly – anyone who tells you otherwise is lying. This is not to say that we should just succumb to the cultural standards and get all weak in our knees when someone calls us fat – we will keep fighting and loving ourselves no matter what and becoming role models for other women to follow in our example, BUT there has to be some room for honesty in the equation. And honestly? It is not always easy to be a Body Image Warrior.

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Heaven gained another angel.

My beautiful Grandmother passed away at 9:24 p.m. Sunday night, she was 3 weeks away from turning 69 years old; I love her so much and it breaks my heart to know that she is no longer with me. For FOUR years she suffered, she’s no longer suffering and knowing that makes my heart smile. But now, I feel so empty inside, it’s like when she died, she took all of me with her. I can’t wait until I’m able to see her again. I love you & I miss you Grandma. 

(Source: nostalgiclovee)

Anon or not and make me choose between:
  • Band: ________ or ___________?
  • Food: ________ or _________?
  • Singer: ________ or ___________?
  • Song: __________ or __________?
  • Celebrites: ________ or ___________ ?
  • Movie: _________ or __________?